fuyu: (unitarian universalism is my religion)
Lyssie ([personal profile] fuyu) wrote2007-01-27 11:40 pm

I do so love discourse

Over the past couple hours, [livejournal.com profile] overdramatized and I have been having a fascinating discussion about religion and religions. :O With her permission, the conversation is reproduced under the cut. There is also a little bonus Firefly geekery.

Because this is about religion, obviously herein lies possible controversy and/or offense! :D The former would not necessarily be a bad thing as long as it's civil on all sides, but we both sincerely hope not to cause any of the latter. If we do, we humbly apologize. This is just a couple of bored and slightly frustrated agnostics havin' a talk.




[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: I have to disagree with some of the assumptions here [on an atheism site I was reading and had just linked her to]. Religion isn't responsible for human stupidity and bullshit. HUMAN STUPIDITY AND BULLSHIT is responsible for human stupidity and bullshit.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: Well, yes.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: And I don't really think there's NO good in religion, as there's plenty. But it also gives a really powerful weapon to the people who are inclined to be raving nuts anyway.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: True.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Then again, that's like that argument that videogames corrupt youth. They only really damage people who'd be frippin' nuts anyway.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: True, but I mean, there's a difference there. Anyone with a reasonably healthy mind can tell a video game is fake and for fun, and nobody who likes them or sells them or produces them says otherwise. Hell, the video game experience is fundamentally self-aware, because you're holding a controller to make a picture move around on a screen and do things.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: ...I see your point.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Religion is all about making people believe it's true.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: *nods* And society tends to give religion a fair amount of clout.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: Just because it's religion.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: It's the tragedy of anyone using something inherently benign for stupid purposes.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: And otherwise perfectly intelligent and thoughtful and rational people can be swayed in negative directions by it, and often because it's just what they were taught from a young age. And what bugs me is that it seems to me that in most religion, there's the sense of "this is right", with the implication and sometimes outright statement "therefore that is wrong", with the frequent result of "we will try to fix you", which rubs me exactly the wrong way.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: Again, I won't say there's no good in religion, because I've seen examples of fantastic good being done in the name of faith, and that's excellent, so I have a hard time condemning religion. I just also have a hard time defending it, especially with things like the whole gay rights debate where my position is diametrically opposite to the vocal religious right.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: I guess my feeling about religion is that it's not necessarily good or bad, but it's dangerous; it should be handled with great care, questioned, and not taken literally.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: ...tch, yes. I feel sort of the same way, as I'm profoundly unreligious myself. But I have a tremendous amount of respect for people who have the capacity for that sort of belief, so it's difficult for me to...eh, this is hard to verbalize.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: *nod* There's sort of a duality, right?
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: I respect religion. I don't have much respect for people. I guess that's what it comes down to.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: It might be closer to the other way for me, despite how many examples of humans being stupid that I see. XD
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: The tenets of Christianity, for example, are REALLY love and peace and stuff. Christianity has Vash Syndrome, if you're into Trigun at all. The distortions are all manmade.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: I dunno, the Bible's really all over the place on that kinda stuff. Though if we're talking strictly New Testament... eh, there's still things that are raised-eyebrow-worthy.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: Christianity at its best has Vash Syndrome, I'd say, but the trouble is we frequently don't see it at its best.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: My parents, when I came to them with questions, told me to remember that the Bible was written by simple shepherds for simple shepherds. The spirit of a religion can't be taken literally from the text. And the Old Testament doesn't count. That was messed up. Incest and overdoses of vengeance for the win.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: But also, The Old Testament is basically the Torah, isn't it?
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: ...yes. And I'm. Not so fond of Judaism as I am of Christianity.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: So what do we say about Judaism?
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Judaism is more intrinsically...closed off? than Christianity is. Christianity is all about converting the gentiles, yo, for PEACE AND LOVE. Judaism is about being the Chosen People. So I have more sympathy for its foibles, I suppose.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: I admit I personally have some trouble with the concept that the spirit of a religion can't be taken literally from the text. I'm awfully linear and cause/effect in my thinking, sometimes, so I kinda think... if we're not supposed to take the spirit of the religion from the text, then what is the text THERE for?

Ahhh, I see what you're saying.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Not that I'm anti-Jewish or anything. 0_o
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: I dunno, I kind of have less sympathy for the whole converting thing. Which I will freely admit is hypocritical of me because I almost always try to convince in any argument I find myself in. XD

No, I didn't get that feeling. :3
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: Less fond of =/= actively against, right?
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Exactly.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: I actually think that the paegant of Jewish culture as viewed through the medium of things like novels by Chaim Potok is beautiful.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: The same can be said for a lot of religious cultures, I think. There is something beautiful about religion.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: When it's not being used for ugly things.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: PERFECT way to put it.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Which is exactly why I have a lot of respect for religion in itself, if not the people who will potentially abuse it.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: *nod*
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Spiritualism hits hard.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: One of the greatest things I've read about in the last few months?
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: An article about the reaction of the community after that guy shot, what was it, five Amish girls?
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: The article mentioned that the community extended their sympathy to the family of the guy, and said they'd have plenty of friends and neighbors willing to give them the support they needed.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: wow. I doubt I'd have been that forgiving. 0_o
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: How easy would it have been to extend the stigma to the guy's family, when they weren't at fault? Just to shun them due to association? But this community's faith moved them to be able to say "wow, this sucks for you guys too, doesn't it? you have as many friends here as you need, we're all in this together". It was beautiful.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Seriously.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: That's the kind of thing we need more of/
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: ... on that subject, and to be geeky for a moment: Shepherd Book is actually a character that I think is something very close to an ideal Christian, in his attitude towards life and how he interacts with the crew.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: YES.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: His acceptance, sort of.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: And taking the sort of absolution from Inara.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: AND "YOU'RE GOING TO THE SPECIAL HELL." XDDDD
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: YES. XDDDD
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: So much win.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: And when River was trying to correct his Bible.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Awwww. That was so cute.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: Yess.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: THE HAIR
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: YES XD That WAS some scary hair. XD
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: ...my hair looks like that if I brush it out after hair spray. Just. Brown instead of gray.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: "He's putting the hair away now, River." "It doesn't matter. It'll still be there. Waiting." XD
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: .... XDD
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Ahaha I have scary hair. >_>
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob:
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: So wow that went off into a Firefly tangent real fast. XD
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: OF COURSE.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: XD XD Firefly has conversation-dominating powers!
But yeah, Book is a good example. Especially his attitude towards his Bible, his explaining that it means something more than what the words say and that's the part that's important. More Christians should, pardon the horrible joke, take a page out of his book on that.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Oh snap. XD But yeah.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: I mean, dude. Cultural taboo against masturbation from a misunderstanding of one verse in the Bible? Not shiny.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: If you take the Bible literally, there's only room for 144,000 people in Heaven. Which is just bullshit. Some sheep farmer from a zillion years ago was trying to think of an incomprehensibly huge number. These days he'd have said "a googleplex."
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: "NO YOU CANNOT MASTURBATE. NO. NEVER. BAD!" + "NO SEXUAL HIJINKS UNTIL MARRIAGE ON PAIN OF HELL!" = frustrated teens who are too ashamed to relieve their tension solo knocking each other up and sharing diseases because they don't have a clue how to do it safely because nobody teaches them. All because someone somewhere who was powerful misunderstood what God was pissed at Onan for.

Yeaaaaah.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: I have serious problems with "the Bible is the literal word of God!" No it's not. If it is, your God is a raving lunatic, or else playing one hell of a mean trick on his people.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Exactly.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: Also, meaning just really does not come through that well after a bajillion translations.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: What was it, Aramaic -> Hebrew -> Greek -> Latin -> English or something? Did I miss a few steps?
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Probably... XD
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: The sad thing about that is I think a lot of fundamentalists just aren't aware that Jesus and his followers didn't speak English.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: THEY SPOKE ENGLISH OVER IN THE MIDDLE EAST 2000 YEARS AGO. YES.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: Or about the subtleties of translation. Until I started learning Japanese and translating, I didn't realize how often it was impossible to convey an entire meaning intact.

XD XD
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: WE'RE TALKING FUNDAMENTALISTS HERE.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: XDDD Yes.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: This is one of the many many reasons I think religion should be given less clout, and also one of the reasons for my fervent, almost fanatical belief in the value of good education.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: People need a good solid grounding in logic and at least a glimpse of a broader worldview before you let them play with a Bible, I think. XD
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: My father went to Catholic school, so he KNOWS his freaking Biblical interpretations. He's also quite religious, by the way. The Jehovah's Witnesses used to come to the door to give us pamphlets and my dad would lean on the door comfortably and argue doctrine for them for upwards of three hours. It was HILARIOUS.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: Believe what you want! Just do it with your BRAIN.

.... hahahhahahahaha that's completely awesome. XD
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: He's the one who always told me the text is just the meanest of guidelines, so.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: I see. :o
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: And Jehovah's Witnesses are text-centrist fundamentalists. THOSE WERE FUN CONVERSATIONS.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: I BET THEY WERE.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: Seriously, this is going to get into an education rant on my part. XD The human mind is surprisingly malleable. If you raise your kid with text-centric fundamentalism before logic and understanding of the world, that's how they're going to learn, and they'll get cemented in that, and no amount of argument can possibly sway them then.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: And you have then quite possibly wasted a potentially brilliant mind.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: Unless they're already inclined to question things and think their own way out, but that doesn't happen often enough.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: At the same time, I can see where the "no evolution in schools" type of people are coming from. If that's what you really believe, and education rips that from you and turns you to a laughingstock and an embarrassment before the children you want to raise as well as you know how... not to say I agree with the suppression of information. Just to say that I know where the frantic parents are coming from. -_-
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: I had a Jehovah's Witness friend in high school, lovely girl, cheerful and fun, graduated valedictorian (or salutatorian - I get confused on that because I associate her with another friend in our year who was *also* one of those two), and I liked her, it's just... there were things we could not have conversations about. It's almost amazing we got on as well as we did.

... yeeaaah, I see your point. -_-
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Mm. I have a friend now who's Islamic. She's perfectly kind and sweet and fun and she gets better grades in chem than I do.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: She really believes at some level that Allah protects her and her family from harm more than he does me because one her ancestors twelve times removed was a prophet.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Holiness by blood.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: ... Wow.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Yeah.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: Yeah, there are times where you have to just... not go there.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Exactly. It's not like she's stupid or anything. It's just. What she believes.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: *nod*
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: You know how I said I have less sympathy for Judaism as a religion, because its spirit is less inclusive than Christianity?
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: (Which is another reason I go "gnnnh" at religious indoctrination. so easy to restrict a brilliant mind. so easy.)
Yeah?
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: My dad makes a convincing case for real dislike of the spirit of Islam. It's the one religion that actually advocates 'conversion by the sword.' It's...haha...it's in their text.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: Yeaaaah.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: And it's so easy and so difficult to go down that road. To stop separating the religion and the people. It's. Weird.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: And really, really dangerous.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: Another reason! Unless everyone all starts believing in the same religion, it often becomes a wedge between peoples for the reason you just stated.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: And you still have to respect the people who believe what they believe and try to make their belief better from the inside. Hell, you even have to respect the extremists. I'm kind of in awe of them, really. So much conviction.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: If only it could be channeled to better causes.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Separating the good from the bad in all that morass is just hard. But I can't believe a world of disaffected athiests would be better. "All things done well for the glory of god" would become...what?
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: True. It'd be more stable, I think, but...
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: For one thing, a lot of disaffected athiests are cynical self-important idiots.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: ... true XD
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: How about a world of agnostics? We're much more agreeable.
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: :D
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: I just fall down and LAWL at the people who condemn all religion because they don't believe in it. LOOK AT YOURSELVES, PEOPLE. WHO DO YOU LOOK LIKE.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: Yeah, agnosticism's fun. Nothing can be known! Let's see the wooooorld! :D
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: :D :D :D Everything is an adventure when you're an agnostic!
[livejournal.com profile] voodoobob: ... and yeah, my dad tells me this story about how there were these atheists picketing a church one time, or something like that... and he made a sign saying "Atheism is a religion" and went up to the fray with it and pissed BOTH sides off. XD
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: WIN.
[livejournal.com profile] overdramatized: It's a belief! A worldview! It totally qualifies.

[And then we started going off-topic and I figured it was as good a time as any to copy the discussion down.]

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[personal profile] unicorn 2007-01-28 06:55 am (UTC)(link)
Someday all the problems with the world will be solved by bored people being philosophical on IM. It's like late-night dorm parties for the technologically advanced.

[identity profile] bassclefsolo.livejournal.com 2007-01-28 08:55 am (UTC)(link)
Train of thought responses:

I grew up Episcopalian. Religion, for me at least, is community more than a set system of beliefs. It's part of my culture. If religion does come up in a discussion with friends, it's more likely to be about pancake dinners, youth groups, holiday traditions, and what kind of donuts we had for coffee hour, instead of theological discussions. I am neither audacious nor arrogant enough to assume I know what God wants humans to do.

I really think there should be more religion education in schools. Not religious education, but something as part of World Cultures class or whatever the equivalent is. Where various belief systems originated, differences between sects/denominations, etc. Instances of "Religion does not work that way" makes my brain hurt.

JESUS WASN'T WHITE, PEOPLE. SERIOUSLY NOW. I mean, it's fine to represent Jesus however you want, but realize that that's probably not what He looked like. A few years ago, Peter Jennings hosted this TV special on what Jesus' life was probably like, and what events actually happened, and he opened with asking various Americans what they thought Jesus looked like...it made my brain cry.

Richard Dawkins visited my school last fall (the semester I wasn't there). He was there to talk about atheism, specifically in regard to his latest book. That surprised me; I thought he'd be there to talk about just genetics or evolution. (How far up does the "Bible Belt" go? Lynchburg is probably in it. I mean, we have Jerry Falwell here.)

The English language needs an official gender-neutral personal pronoun.

Human nastiness knows few bounds, and religion is just one more thing to exploit for an excuse.

I want "Atheism is a religion" on a shirt. Your dad is awesome.

[identity profile] bean-bunny.livejournal.com 2007-01-28 02:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I grew up in perhaps the most loving non-denominational church in the world. Srsly. If you were Christian, come on in, and if you weren't, come on in anyway 'cause we've got crackers and grape juice.

I got out into the world and discovered that not everyone thinks Christianity is about peace and love. This realization still upsets me.

[identity profile] elanor-pam.livejournal.com 2007-01-28 03:54 pm (UTC)(link)
You two? You win. I love you. *agnostic as well*

[identity profile] lynxgriffin.livejournal.com 2007-01-28 05:02 pm (UTC)(link)
*as a religious person, my thoughts on yaoi religion:*

I agree that anything for any religion (and that includes atheism! ;D) can be used or construed to hurt others, which is never a good thing. And I think there is a big difference between people who identify themselves as "Christian" (or Jewish or Muslim) and those who call themselves, or are called "fundamentalists," because rather ironically, fundamentalism is about focusing on other peoples' problems instead of your own...even some things that aren't really problems. I mean, for the longest time people thought the Bible justified slavery and female oppression, too...maybe someday Christianity as a whole will grow out of the whole homophobic thing, too. -_- Especially since, as far as the Bible is concerned, homosexuality is barely a "sin" to begin with...the few passages that (maybe) mention it did so in the context of something much larger and actually sinful (Why is Sodom and Gomorrah remembered for all its gays when really the huge thing was that it was supposedly full of murderers, liars and thieves?) Jesus never even mentions it in the gospels.

Sorry, tangent. XP I guess the problem with many Christians is that they've been taught to read the Bible so literally that they miss out on many important things, sometimes the most important things, when they miss the metaphorical and symbolic ways of explaining things. Because as friggin' awesome as some of the Bible stories are, I hiiiiighly doubt Jonah was really inside a giant fish for three days, or that Noah really built a boat big enough to hold a pair of every animal.

It's also really important to not take things out of their historical and cultural contexts. All those Old Testament rules that make no sense to us now were, essentially, rules saying: "Keep clean, don't do something stupid to yourself, and don't hurt others." Makes perfect sense for a nomadic culture with limited resources and a heckuva lotta other nations out there trying to make them into resources.

Oh feh, I don't remember what I was trying to say now. XD This is why I shouldn't reply to religious discussions this early in the morning. I GO TO CON NOW K BAI

[identity profile] bassclefsolo.livejournal.com 2007-01-28 06:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh feh, I don't remember what I was trying to say now. XD This is why I shouldn't reply to religious discussions this early in the morning. I GO TO CON NOW K BAI

Same here. XD I wrote more than what I posted, but erased it because I thought it looked like I was either being arrogant, hypocritical, or both.
I actually was going to go to church today (there's an Episcopal church across the street), but I stayed up past o-dark-thirty posting, and other internet stuff, and thus went back to sleep after smiting my alarm and didn't get up until nearly 1 PM. I feel bad more about almost missing brunch than about missing church. :P

[identity profile] lynxgriffin.livejournal.com 2007-01-28 09:44 pm (UTC)(link)
(Oh, BTW, I wanted to say I agreed with some of the stuff you said up there XD)

Yeah, I haven't gone to church in a really long time. D: Mostly it was because I had a work shift and then a class during Sunday mornings, and now I've just fallen out of the habit. That, and none of my friends really go, and my family is overseas so I can't go to see them, either. It really is a lot of a community thing, and since the community I most associate with as my close friends isn't at church, it's really hard for me to justify getting up to go. :/

[identity profile] alba-aulbath.livejournal.com 2007-01-28 05:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Wordy McWordword from Wordsville, Wordsington in the United Words of Word.

[identity profile] sarraceniaceae.livejournal.com 2007-01-28 09:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I agree with pretty much everything you say. And hell, I'm an atheist and I still agree that atheism can be defined as a religion because all it is is the belief that there is no god. (Hence why I avoid fundamentalist atheists like the plague. There is nothing more boring than someone lecturing at length as to why every other religion than his is wrong.) Although I also disagree, because to me religion implies a much more elaborated philosophy than atheism.

Some of the Biblical translations nowadays are quite good, though. I have a Bible that's translated directly from the oldest sources they could find, and they put footnotes in every time they felt the translation missed something, or there were contradictory sources. But still. One reason I'm not particularly fond of most text-based Christians is I've never seen any of them take the logical step and go out and learn Aramaic. On the other hand, the few people who I've heard of that do have my respect.

But most religions in my admittedly somewhat limited experience boil down to "Stop hurting each other, damn it!" And that's hard to argue with. It's the people who follow it that say "You won't stop hurting each other and help each other the way my god says you should do, and therefore I'm going to burn you alive." Or "I'm god's earthly representative. Give me all your money." Which is not limited to any religion, as the Buddhist monks down the street from me could attest. If they weren't too busy driving brand new SUVs at 60 in a 40 zone. Not that I'm still going "Wait what" at a Buddhist monk passing me in a SUV that cost twice what my car did. New.

...I think I lost track of whatever point I was going for here. Not unusual, I suppose.

[identity profile] princealia.livejournal.com 2007-01-29 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
Religion is SRS BUZNESS xD

Wow

[identity profile] zoyra-midnight.livejournal.com 2007-02-10 09:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I really liked this conversation, I thought you made alot of good points. This semester I am taking a Bible As Literature class and before I went I was worried about Christians Fundamentalists that might be in the class, when I got there I realized there was something worse. Intolerant Atheiists. One man attacked a girl to her face calling her a whore and a mindless sheep, when she disagreed with his comment that burning a Bible wasn't rude.

Its just nice to see a conversation that keeps things civil and manages to point out that fundamentalism is the danger, not necasarily religion itself.

Bravo.